María León is a very talented woman. Whether as a singer or as an actress, the so-called Sergeant León always stands out in all the projects in which she participates. If that were not enough, she recently gave an interview in which she showed her emotional maturity, which can serve as an example.
The singer and dancer was invited to the 'Faisy Nights' program, where she talked about a little bit of everything: her career, where her nickname came from, what she did with her first check and a story that we want to highlight, a narcissistic relationship that made her understand the mistakes you were making with that person and will not repeat them again.
On TikTok, terms like “love bombing” and “narcissist” have become popular, as both millennials and centennials have become aware of these two mental disorders that occur recurrently in relationships, but what are they?
“Love bombing” is when a person showers you with compliments. He tells you that you are the best, that he wants you in his life and if that doesn't happen, he wouldn't know what to do. And no, there is nothing romantic about it, because according to psychologists, this is a tactic to covertly manipulate. You can identify it by abrupt personality changes or a lack of personal space; if it invades your space and does not respect your limits. Careful.
As for the “narcissist”, it is a personality disorder or mental illness in which the person has an unreasonable air of superiority. They always seek too much attention and admiration. They lack empathy and remain focused on themselves. They can intimidate you. , they do not give in when there are conflicts or they simply ignore your needs.
Returning to the topic of María León, during the broadcast of the Unicable program, the former member of the Playa Limbo group was asked what red flags she detects in a person that make them distance themselves or prevent a more intimate relationship from taking place.
“The most important thing is to understand the concepts because I didn't even know that I had been with a narcissistic person, which is a mental health disorder. They have a distortion of reality. Many people are not bad, but they have this disorder,” shared María León, 38, who clarified that she is not a psychologist, but thanks to years of therapy she has managed to understand many things.
Before learning the concepts and going to therapy, when María met someone and they applied love bombing, she believed she had found the perfect person. “The first signs that you are in a relationship like this is when something is taken from you and you feel guilty that they no longer give it to you,” the singer continued.
As the interpreter of 'Lose me respect' commented, at first the person feels guilty for these mood swings, but as she highlighted, “he is only showing who he really is.”
"This has been a key for me, understanding that the act of bravery is knowing how to leave on time and say 'this far', it's something I learned the hard way because it took me a long time to detect it," continued the winner of the reality show ' Who is the mask?'
Despite being with a narcissistic person, María knew how to recognize her mistakes, a task that is not easy and that entails a lot of responsibility and maturity.
“I allowed psychological abuse, without blaming anyone, I like to take charge of things, and also a physical issue that I allowed,” León continued, adding that music has been a way to heal and understand some situations.
After ending this relationship, María has returned to the recording studio, where she has made new music focused on her experiences, on herself, her feelings and not so much on what she experienced with her ex-boyfriend, whose name she never revealed.
Faisy even told her that out of respect for their relationship, he walked away as a friend, the sergeant replied that "I allowed this person's insecurities to keep me away from you, a person valuable to me," the actress and singer responded.
Finally, one of the mistakes that León learned the most from was not lowering himself again to enhance his partner's ego, as he did with this one.
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